Marriage : predestined or by chance?

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Do you think your life partner is predestined for you?

Is the term 'match made in Heaven' even true?
Or is it a term played up by the media to get more hits on air by tugging the heart strings of the more vulnerable?

How will you ever know that he is made for you?

Some cases women think that the perfect man they married is the one made for them because they have fully ticked all the criterias in their box, but realise later in their marriages that perhaps it was not so.

We all know that the world has evolved into such that bread overcomes love.

How will you ever know that you're not making a big mistake? Is there a time period where both parties' true colours are revealed and from there we see if they are still the one? How long is this time period? What if they are such good actors that they only reveal it after marriage and that time you're fucked?

Is it love at first sight? Is that predestined? And by love i mean - know that he'll be with you forever and not i want to rip off his pants.

Is it destiny? Is it by chance? Choice?

I do not know.

How is ti that you truly know that the person is meant for you? Is it when it comes to a marriable age and that if you're still with him then he definitely is the one?

One of life's many unanswered questions.

Do you marry him because he IS the one and you just can't live without him? Or do you marry him because your time is up and that he is able to make do?

hmmmm.....